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                                              Looking for Love?



                                  There’s an App for That.





                                                       BENEFITS OF ONLINE DATING



                                                         you feel the warmth of a kindred spirit and       prospects. You might meet someone who’s
      BY CARRIE SCOZZARO                                 develop a friendship. And let’s face it, it’s     wonderful, but not for you.
                                                         kind of fun giggling over an email or other           In addition to looks, you can search
          Some people meet the love of their life        notification that indicates someone has           according to location, background, life-
      through happenstance or mutual acquain-            liked your profile.                               style,  and  values,  from  political  and
      tances. For the rest of us, there’s an app.           “Meeting new people leads to meeting           religious views to shared interests.
          Lumen,  FarmersOnly.com,  JSwipe.              more new people,” said Ted, a semi-retired            For example, in a search on Match.com, an
      Whatever your demographic, preference              executive in north Idaho, who has used            industry leader in the increasingly crowded
      or location, there’s a                                                                                                         field of dating web-
      dating app for your                                                                                                            sites, 1074 men ages
      cell  phone,  com-                                                                                                             60 to 70 fell within
      puter, or both.                                                                                                                a  60-mile  radius
          You simply cre-                                                                                                            of my zip code. Of
      ate an account, pay a                                                                                                          those men, only 622
      fee (although some                                                                                                             included  a  photo.
      are  free  to  use),                                                                                                           Only 41 were cat lov-
      enter some infor-                                                                                                              ers, and 18 of them
      mation and a photo,                                                                                                            definitely want kids.
      your interests, and                                                                                                               For the 70-to-
      what you’re looking                                                                                                            80 age range, 214
      for. You can search,                                                                                                           were potential can-
      be searched, or let                                                                                                            didates, still only 19
      the  website  algo-                                                                                                            cat lovers, and three
      rithms  generate                                                                                                               who still want kids,
      a  list  of  potential                                                                                                         which  suggests  a
      dates. That’s it.                                                                                                              misunderstanding
          What  are  you                                                                                                             of  this  particular
      getting yourself into                                                                                                          parameter or indi-
      when you go online                                                                                                             cates  exceedingly
      looking for love? It                                                                                                           potent urges—red
      depends  on  what                                                                                                              flags either way.
      you’re looking for.       Dating apps can be ideal for introverts or people unable to physically connect (like during a pandemic). It helps   The 20 gentle-
      THE UPSIDE                to articulate what you’re looking for and what you feel are your best qualities. © Eugenia Ard, Bigstock.com.  men aged 80 to 90
          Dating apps can                                                                                                            looked  like  they
      be ideal for introverts or people unable to        dating websites for about four years.             could be years younger, which is either a
      physically connect (like during a pandemic).          “I don’t know how else you meet peo-           good sign, or a reminder to ask every pro-
      It helps to articulate what you’re looking for     ple,” he added.                                   spective match: “How old are the photos on
      and what you feel are your best qualities.            Most  platforms  allow  some  level  of        your profile?”
      Even if it’s not a perfect match, sometimes        filtering, which can help whittle down your



                                                                                                            Crossword Clues
                Crossword


                                                                                                           ACROSS
                                                                                                           1 Hybrid cycle
                                                                                                           6 Technology that uses polarized light, briefly
                                                                                                           9 Boo-boo
                                                                                                           13 Baba ghanouj ingredient
                                                                                                           14 Yellowfin tuna
                                                                                                           15 “That was close!”
                                                                                                           16 Preserve, in a way
                                                                                                           17 *Reference work for canine lovers?
                                                                                                           19 Range in the home, maybe
                                                                                                           20 Keep going
                                                                                                           21 *Instructional work for expectant mothers?
                    ANSWERS ON PAGE 31                                                                     26 Calculating
                                                                                                           23 Punk rock offshoot


                                                                                                           27 Grunts, so to speak
                                                                                                           28 Got going
                                                                                                           30 Simmons competitor
                                                                                                           32 Cork’s place
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